My dad regularly told myself and others I would never amount to anything, but our mom regularly told myself and others she knew I could become whatever I wanted to. I am not sure which a single helped myself and others more, to be tolerable with you. My mother made myself and others assume loved, but Dad made myself and others assume love I had something to prove. Perhaps making himself the “bad guy” so to speak spurred myself and others on to greater success than I otherwise would have had. It’s difficult to say, but between the two of them they enabled myself and others to be the best I could be. Even though I never did genuinely well in school, I excelled in night classes for our Heating plus Air Conditioning certification exam. I managed to pass that exam with flying colors, plus land a job with a heating plus cooling contractor the genuinely next week. My dad still wasn’t impressed, however I was making more as an Heating plus Air Conditioning tech then he did in his entire job as a truck driver. This kept myself and others striving for greater plus greater success, until a single day I found myself as the co-owner of our own Heating plus Air Conditioning contracting business. I surprised our mom on her birthday with a new central cooling system for her house, plus our dad still scoffed. At this point, I realized that our success in the Heating plus Air Conditioning industry had given myself and others the confidence to not care if he approved or not. Not only was I skilled enough to service or update any cooling system or furnace on the market, but I was supporting our own family, plus his.