This is okay

Keep the light going right?  Don’t take your wife for granted.  Be particular you are making an effort to maintain the magic.  Disconnect from screens and strive to be present for the important person in your life.  While these may seem enjoy stupid, corny platitudes, they are really fairly meaningful elements in a fine relationship.  However, actively executing these behaviors is another thing entirely. I’ve been with my wife and bestfriend for sixteen years now.  There is such a deep connection between us it can be easy to not be proactive in appreciating our relationship. I enjoy to turn off the central air conditioning to open the windows and listen to the night sounds during a snuggle session.  Both of us attempt to have some sort of time off together each week. That might mean walking down the beach or just grilling out together and enjoying the stars. Lately, all of us have been firing up the candles. My wife cares about some candlelight and I love looking at his in that soft glow.  So, at least a few times per week, the candles have lit up our beach house similar to a church on Christmas eve. It’s really rather amazing to listen to songs and sip some cognac with all those candles. However, I changed the air conditioning filter today. I could not believe what I held in my hands.  I had never seen any heating and air conditioning air filter look enjoy that. The entire surface was covered with a sooty, waxy funk. I thought at first there had been a grease fire I hadn’t known about. But it wasn’t; it was from all the candles!

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