Living with your significant other can be so damn hard sometimes! I absolutely don’t think how couples like my mom & dad have been together for over forty years, because my lady & I have been together for only 1 year & it feels like a lifetime, then now don’t get myself and others wrong I love my lady & I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else, but it is so hard to adjust to the way that she lives.
I grew up in a legitimately low income & frugal household, while she grew up in a wealthy family, this has led to several unusual disagreements, the latest being what we should do about the problem with our HVAC system.
In my family whenever something breaks down we always try to repair it before even considering the method of replacing it, but my lady on the other hand, as soon as the HVAC method started to show the first sign of having problems she went ahead & ordered a brand new HVAC method separate from even consulting with myself and others first. It has been a few days since the local HVAC business installed the new component into our beach house & she still doesn’t get why I am so irritated by this, but sure we could afford a new 1, but if buying everything from new becomes the norm then we will be out of money eventually when we could have been saving money instead, however hopefully she will be able to see it from my point of view sooner or later, but i’m not feeling legitimately optimistic at the moment.